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Tuesday, September 30, 2025

Monthly Round-Up: September 2025

Back to the Garden by Laurie R. King. This was my first Laurie R. King book and I’ve already requested more from the library. I love her writing style and this story really pulled me in. The time jumps were well done and both storylines intrigued me, which can be rare for me in a dual timeline book.

Forget Me Not by Stacy Willingham. I really liked the tangled storylines in this book. I never would have guessed the ending, so that was satisfying. The twists felt earned also, not just thrown in to shock the reader. I like Willingham’s writing style and will read her others.


She's Up to No Good by Sara Goodman Confino. This was a random read thanks to a Kindle ad, but the writing style was effortless and pulled me in immediately. Evelyn’s storyline was my favorite; I found Jenna a bit frustrating in terms of her indecisiveness and lack of personality. 


Edam and Weep by Linda Reilly. These are truly cozy for me, which made the extreme overuse of the word “garbed” (like 5-6 times in the whole book, which seems excessive for a rare word, especially with 3 in the first several pages and 2 on one page!) really stab my brain. Still thought it was a good book to keep the series moving though.


Lockdown by Laurie R. King. This is my second King book and I still really like her writing style, and liked all the assorted POVs throughout the day. However, the ending really ruined it for me. This WAS written in 2017, so I’ll give it some grace considering how much more commonplace school shootings have become these days. But the idea of nothing really happening once he’s shooting AND the kids taking down the shooter just had me rolling my eyes. It’s not that I don’t believe it, necessarily, I just hope it’ll never happen that way considering how terrible it could have turned out. I know, I know - it’s fiction, but it’s too real these days so it didn’t land for me.


A Flicker in the Dark by Stacy Willingham. This is my second Willingham book and I really liked it. I thought I had the twist pegged (well, down to two possibilities) but then it was something different, and then something different, and even though one of my possibilities was technically right, the way I’d thought of it was wrong, so I loved how this kept me guessing. The final image was also a beautiful ending, and I appreciate that it wasn’t a 100% happy or even satisfactory ending.


All the Bright Places by Jennifer Niven. This was a re-read for me because I want to watch the movie on Netflix but didn’t remember enough. I remembered loving it in 2015 - 5 stars, rave review, the works. But re-reading it now, after the ways the country has changed since then, raising a son and seeing how Finch acts with Violet, being so pushy… It didn’t sit right with me. I know it’s not the point of the book but the way he kept going after her, making comments about wanting to kiss her and all that, really rubbed me the wrong way. Is it supposed to be ok because of his mental illness? Or because she eventually gave in and fell in love with him? I don’t think so. I see him as manipulative and pulling her into his orbit just to leave and fuck her up even more. Sure, he’s depressed and trying to feel things, but I just can’t stomach it in the current climate.


All the Dangerous Things by Stacy Willingham. This seemed different from Willingham’s other books and was unbearably slow in many places for me. I felt like the flashback scenes were repetitive - each felt exactly the same and I felt like I was drowning in that swamp, too. And the current time was also really slow and seemed to reiterate the same ideas over and over. The last fourth was good though, and I was glad it didn’t wrap up in the way it seemed like it had been chugging toward the whole book.


Party of Liars by Kelsey Cox. This reminded me of Big Little Lies overall, with the unknown dead person established right away, then multiple POVs building up to what happened, with all of them being possible suspects and victims. Even the twist with one of the male characters reminded me of Big Little Lies, but I’m not mad about it. It was an interesting book that pulled me in and entertained me, so I’d read more by this author.


The Book of Lost Hours by Hayley Gelfuso. I wasn’t sure what to expect with this one besides time travel. I saw it on a “New Releases” newsletter and wanted to give it a try. I’m glad I did. It was really interesting, the idea of memories stored in a library, plus who would want to destroy them and why. And, since it dealt with some WWII history, it seemed especially relevant today, unfortunately. I love how everything twisted together. The ending was a bit too pure for me because I think there should have been a bit more disruption based on everything that came before, but it didn’t ruin it. Full post here.


Only If You’re Lucky by Stacy Willingham. This was my least favorite Willingham book. All the characters were annoying and the question of what happened wasn’t compelling enough for me to care. I pushed myself to finish it and felt like everything that happened in the last fourth of the book was just thrown together for drama.


Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret by Judy Blume. Re-read 9/23/2025. I read this countless times as a kid and several times as an adult and always love it. Blume effortlessly captures the tween voice. I re-read it this time because I’d just watched the movie and thought it stayed pretty true to the book, but wanted to check myself. It really did! I think it’s one of the best book-to-movie I’ve seen.


The Perfect Boyfriend by Ava Roberts. This had a great concept and the twist made it more unique than other AI romance books I’ve read, but that’s the only good thing I can say about it. The writing was AWFUL. I was hoping the twist was that ALL the characters were AI based on how they talked and thought, but instead I’m just thinking (hoping) the book was AI-generated. It was the most bland, flat book I’ve ever read. The characters were all different versions of the same person - I genuinely couldn’t tell the mother and daughter apart. There was no emotion, no depth to any of them. Think your husband’s cheating? Eh, that barely makes an impact and is totally swept under the rug. But making a smoothie? Two paragraphs, please! There was no rhyme or reason to what concepts were expanded on and what was glossed over.


Against the Currant by Olivia Matthews. Read for the September Cozy Mystery Book Club. I love culinary cozies and have a secret dream of opening a bakery despite not being an amazing baker myself, so I loved Lyndsay’s character. I feel like a lot of things were repeated: the bakery smells, the support and closeness of the family, the suspects and their motives. I don’t think things need to be spelled out that much. And there were a lot of relatives introduced very quickly that didn’t play big roles in the story, but I do understand that might be setting things up for later in the series. Overall, the book pulled me in and gave me the clues I needed to solve the case along with Lyndsay, so I liked it and would read more of this series.


Starring Sally J. Freedman as Herself by Judy Blume. Along with Margaret, this is one of Blume’s books that I re-read most in childhood. I loved Sally because I also imagined stories and acted them out while playing and I hadn’t seen that represented in a book until I read this one. Something made me think of it recently and I wanted to re-read it. It still held up and was really engaging to me.


Parents Weekend by Alex Finlay. I love a good thriller but this one didn’t quite do it for me. There was an interesting premise but the missing students were so flat that I didn’t feel the suspense of needing to find them. The focus was more on the parents’ drama (and almost all were cheating, yawn) and while that was interesting, it wasn’t the point of the book, so wrapping up the case at the end felt more like a reminder that THIS is what I should have been paying attention to. I felt like the students’ POVs inserted periodically came later when the author possibly realized the story wasn’t enough about them going missing, because they seemed really random and a bit heavy-handed about what had happened in the past to get them to this point.


The Ex-Wives Club by Sally Hepworth. I love Hepworth’s literary fiction/early books, but her venture into thrillers hasn’t landed as strongly for me. This was a quick short story but again, I found the lack of depth keeping me at arm’s length. I didn’t care about any of the characters and while the premise is interesting, it felt more like reading a news story than a short story or novella.

Monday, September 15, 2025

A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson


A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson. Going in, this one felt too familiar, like maybe I had read it and DNF before? But I couldn’t find proof of that, so I figured it just seemed similar to other YA true crime/cold case/podcast type books. I stuck with it and got completely obsessed. I thought one of the murderers was incredibly obvious and was surprised they weren’t a suspect all along, but the other took me by surprise. The ending was perfect and definitely made me eager to read the rest of the series.

Good Girl, Bad Blood by Holly Jackson. Second books usually feel like a placeholder between the first and third of a trilogy but this one held its own. I thought it was a really good mystery and I love how it pulled in some details from the first book that hadn’t even registered for me. For a teenager solving crimes the police can’t (or won’t), I feel like this is realistically written, especially considering emotions Pip feels after all she’s been through.

As Good As Dead by Holly Jackson. I thought this was a really satisfying end. The first third or even half maybe was VERY repetitive with what Pip was thinking and feeling regarding her trauma. I get that what happened is major and will change a person but for the sake of fiction, I think it could have been cut and handled better. It felt like Jackson was trying to meet word count with those sections. However, how Pip evolved feels really natural and I think the ending was just right.

The show was a slog for me to get through. I'll be honest and say movies are really hard for me to focus on. I usually wander away, either physically or mentally, about 30 minutes in. But shows, somehow, are easier for me to focus on. That wasn't the case here, though. Maybe because I'd already read the book and really enjoyed it, so I knew the story and the suspense didn't work on me?

Also, while I thought all the actors were just-right picks for the characters, Pip seemed a bit young in her actions on the show. In many scenes, it seemed like she was just bumbling along, stumbling upon things rather than following clues and leads like she did in the book.

Sunday, August 31, 2025

Monthly Round-Up: August 2025

Wednesday, August 27, 2025

Great Big Beautiful Life by Emily Henry

Great Big Beautiful Life by Emily Henry

I’m not a romance reader but I’ve appreciated the escape of Emily Henry books, so I figured I’d read this one and see what it was about. But oh my Taylor Jenkins Reid!! What was this??? It seriously felt like a poor imitation of The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo with a bit of the reporter aspect (and reveal) of Daisy Jones and the Six thrown in for good measure. And I know Taylor Jenkins Reid isn’t the first or only person to tell a story in interviews or have that type of twist, but the similarities are just really strong and, the nail in the coffin, is that it wasn’t done well. Taylor Jenkins Reid is a master at creating realistic characters you care about, even if they’re awful people. The emotion tethers you to the story. Well, Henry didn’t have that emotion, her characters were flat and boring, and the romance was lukewarm at best. The will-they, won’t-they wasn’t that strong and the side story with Alice’s mother issues seemed tacked on after the fact.

Also, this is incredibly petty, but the title gave me great big beautiful Tr*mp vibes. Why not pick any other title that actually gives you a sense of the story instead of something so general and bland? Oh wait, I guess that does fit the book...

Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Atmosphere by Taylor Jenkins Reid

Atmosphere by Taylor Jenkins Reid

I've read everything by Taylor Jenkins Reid and always love her characters more than anything else. I feel like she dives so deep into these characters they become real people. And that was certainly true here. Even the side characters felt like real friends now hovering at the edges of my social circle.

I started reading this one in the library as soon as my hold came in and finished it the next day. I love Reid’s approach to humans and connections and thought this was really well done. The astronaut aspect was interesting to me but I’m not big into space so if there were any issues there, I didn’t notice - I was here for the relationships. And she does them so well, and makes them feel so complete. Even though the story covers a lot of time, I felt like there were enough details to make it feel like a satisfying, complete story I could get invested in. 

Light spoilers ahead...

Friday, August 15, 2025

The Dime Museum by Joyce Hinnefeld

The Dime Museum by Joyce Hinnefeld

I reviewed Joyce Hinnefeld's novel in stories for MicroLit Almanac - read it here!

The Dime Museum is one of those rare collections that somehow manages to feel both expansive and deeply intimate. Each story stands beautifully on its own, yet as the book unfolds, you realize you’re also being drawn into something much larger: an intricate mosaic of intersecting lives.

Thursday, July 31, 2025

Monthly Round-Up: July 2025

I thought it would be fun to start doing monthly round-up posts. I used to do a series of the picture books we read each week but that was tough to maintain, and now, sadly, neither my child nor I read many picture books. And I try to spotlight many of the books I read each month, either because they're awesome and I want everyone to read them, or because I have problems with them and need to vent - ha! But the idea of just... sharing all my reviews here in addition to Goodreads and the StoryGraph sounded nice, so here we go...



The Murder of Roger Ackroyd by Agatha Christie. As someone who is not a fan of contemporary unreliable narrators, I was eager to read a classic with an author doing it right. And what a masterclass this is! Even knowing the twist, it was such a delight to read and pulled me right in. Since I did know the twist, I also got to carefully inspect how Christie made it all happen. Dedicated post about Roger Ackroyd here!


See You at Harry's by Jo Knowles. I was incredibly interested in this book when it was a family running a restaurant and how that might be embarrassing for the kids as they grow up, but once the dead child came into play, I was out. Maybe I’m just stubborn because in my MFA workshops, we were always taught to not to start with a dream and not to use dead/dying babies/children. It felt like a grab to be really emotional and powerful and just fell flat for me. It was a struggle to finish this one because I felt like the potential story just devolved into sadness and grief for this kid who was already overly cutesy and unrealistic when he was alive.


The Mystery of Mrs. Christie by Marie Benedict. Agatha Christie’s disappearance has fascinated me and I was eager to “learn” more about it through this fictional depiction. I love how it was handled with the different timelines and how that was structured, especially considering how it came together at the end.


Life As We Knew It by Susan Beth Pfeffer. This was a re-read for me, but I’ve thought of the series so often since I read it in April 2016. When the author recently died, I knew it was time to read it again! I loved this first book so much. It’s wild to me that I originally read it before Covid, and now we’ve been through that and are possibly on the cusp of who knows what in the world… so it was really interesting to re-read it through that lens of what we’ve been through and what’s right around the corner. Series posted about in full (original read and re-read) here.


The Dead and the Gone by Susan Beth Pfeffer. I’d previously read this series so I had vague memories of book two, but it really took me aback on a re-read for it to be a totally different set of characters in a totally different place, but experiencing the same time period. Once I got into it, I appreciated the drastically different interpretation of what happened, and it was well-written in terms of what happened to these characters, but I still think it’s an interesting choice that the writer used the same time period for a second book, even knowing that they’d come together at a later time in the third book. I guess it was easier to write a full second book about the different characters instead of trying to cram all the backstory into the book where he meets Miranda.


The World We Live In by Susan Beth Pfeffer. I liked how this one brought together the characters from the first two, and while I didn’t care for how religious the second book was, at least it fit the characters. It seemed like everyone was forcibly religious in this book, even though Miranda and her family didn’t seem that way in the first. Not a big deal, maybe just passage of time and the author’s views changing so she put them in the book more? Either way, I think this was a really logical next step for the series.


The Final Episode by Lori Roy. I found this while searching Kindle Unlimited books to read during my free trial and the synopsis caught my attention. I really loved the writing and the way the story was told. I liked that I was never completely sure if I was “watching” slightly fictionalized episodes of the show or truly living what each episode showed from the characters' POVs as it happened. It doesn’t matter either way, but I thought it was an interesting way to think about what each option might have skewed in terms of the truth.


All Fours by Miranda July. I’m still thinking about this one… definitely going to write something longer about it in my September substack once I get my thoughts around it (and turning 40).


A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson. Going in, this one felt too familiar, like maybe I had read it and DNF before? But I couldn’t find proof of that, so I figured it just seemed similar to other YA true crime/cold case/podcast type books. I stuck with it and got completely obsessed. I thought one of the murderers was incredibly obvious and was surprised they weren’t a suspect all along, but the other took me by surprise. The ending was perfect and definitely made me eager to read the rest of the series.


Don't Let Him In by Lisa Jewell. I was drawn into this book because the premise was already so twisted that I knew the end had to make it even more so. It did, and I wasn’t totally sure what was coming, so that was enjoyable.


Kill Joy by Holly Jackson. This was a cute short story but I don’t think it added much to my appreciation for what I’ve read of the series so far. Not necessary to read overall, not awful to read, just… there.


Forever… by Judy Blume. This was a re-read (for the thousandth time I’m sure) because I want to watch the Netflix show and compare and contrast them. I think this really held up and honestly, I love it even more now as an older woman and parent. I think it does a great job of showing a realistic relationship and that sex doesn’t always lead to pregnancy and that breaking up isn’t the end of the world. Dedicated post comparing the book and the show here!


Good Girl, Bad Blood by Holly Jackson. Second books usually feel like a placeholder between the first and third of a trilogy but this one held its own. I thought it was a really good mystery and I love how it pulled in some details from the first book that hadn’t even registered for me. For a teenager solving crimes the police can’t (or won’t), I feel like this is realistically written, especially considering emotions Pip feels after all she’s been through.


As Good As Dead by Holly Jackson. I thought this was a really satisfying end. The first third or even half maybe was VERY repetitive with what Pip was thinking and feeling regarding her trauma. I get that what happened is major and will change a person but for the sake of fiction, I think it could have been cut and handled better. It felt like Jackson was trying to meet word count with those sections. However, how Pip evolved feels really natural and I think the ending was just right. Separate post about the book series and TV show coming soon!


You Must Be New Here by Katie Sise. This one was tough for me to get into. I couldn’t keep the narrators apart initially, and even later on I couldn’t really remember who was who - I kept forgetting who Clara’s kids were and some of Sloane’s history got muddy for me. Overall, it was an okay read, but I feel like the biggest twist was Ben and Harper being siblings instead of married. The whodunnit was pretty obvious from the start.


The Last Pebble by Alex Horne. I love Alex Horne, the Horne Section, his adult books, what I’ve seen of Taskmaster, and this book came highly recommended from a friend. It was an interesting concept for sure, but I think it would have worked better as a novella instead of being as long as it was. It got a bit wordy and I think some children would lose interest with the wordiness and slow pace, then several major reveals all crammed in at the end. I would definitely read another children’s book by him, though.

Saturday, July 12, 2025

The Final Episode by Lori Roy

The Final Episode by Lori Roy

I found this while searching Kindle Unlimited books to read during my free trial and the synopsis caught my attention. I really loved the writing and the way the story was told. I liked that I was never completely sure if I was “watching” slightly fictionalized episodes of the show or truly living what each episode showed from the characters' POVs as it happened. It doesn’t matter either way, but I thought it was an interesting way to think about what each option might have skewed in terms of the truth.

Spoilers ahead...

Tuesday, June 10, 2025

Run for the Hills by Kevin Wilson

Run for the Hills by Kevin Wilson

I love Kevin Wilson’s books and was lucky to get to see him at a bookstore talking about this latest novel. He has such a unique approach to his story ideas and fleshing them out. And then such an amazing way of putting these concepts into words.

I kept flagging certain lines that opened my eyes to how and why I (or other people) think and feel certain ways. It made me feel like I was getting to know these new people on such a deep level - not just the kids, but also their mothers. And then the dad… wow.

When the overall story concept was introduced, I had no idea how it would be resolved. Would they never make it to the dad? Would he be impossible to find? Would he be a jerk? Would he run away? I thought of everything except what actually happened, and it was perfect. It didn’t feel like a rip-off.

I think this might be my favorite Kevin Wilson novel yet, and that’s saying a lot. I think I'm actually going to re-read all of his books this summer.

Check out other posts about Kevin Wilson from the blog:

Monday, June 2, 2025

The Seven Year Slip by Ashley Poston

The Seven Year Slip by Ashley Poston

A friend recommended this book when I said the most “fantasy” I really read was parallel universes and time travel. This book was perfect for me!

I loved the magical apartment and how it pulled Clementine and Iwan together. I love that the threads of how they encountered each other were clear right from the beginning because it really helped up the tension of what would happen between them in the end.

The writing was so descriptive that it totally pulled me from reality - one of my favorite things about reading fiction, but not every author can pull it off. I also really loved how Poston wrote about the foods Iwan prepared and what they meant to him and Clementine. I think she really nailed the friendships you develop with coworkers, too.

Soft spoiler potential ahead...

The only thing... just to be nitpicky... is that I wish there was some hint of what Clementine was going to do next. Not everyone is defined by their career but it was so important to her throughout the book that I wish she'd even thought of an option or two isntead of making it seem like she was just going to be with Iwan and travel. Although, maybe there will be a sequel and I'll get my answer.

I read Geekerella years ago and will definitely be reading more Poston soon!

Thursday, May 15, 2025

Magic Can’t Save Us: 18 Tales of Likely Failure by Josh Denslow

Magic Can’t Save Us: 18 Tales of Likely Failure by Josh Denslow


I reviewed Josh Denslow's latest collection for MicroLit Almanac - read it here!

In Magic Can’t Save Us: 18 Tales of Likely Failure, Josh Denslow delivers a sharp, genre-blurring short story collection that’s equal parts funny, heartbreaking, and weirdly tender. Through eighteen inventive tales, Denslow injects magical realism into the messy, intimate spaces of human relationships. He uses dragons, harpies, and zombie apocalypses not as escapes from emotional conflict, but as magnifying glasses that reveal what’s already broken or breaking.

Sunday, April 6, 2025

I Need You to Read This by Jessa Maxwell

I Need You to Read This by Jessa Maxwell

Alex Marks moves to New York City hoping for a fresh start—just a quiet life with her copywriting job. But when she hears about the murder of her childhood hero, Francis Keen, everything changes. Keen wasn’t just any journalist; she was the beloved voice behind Dear Constance, a famous advice column. Her death shocks everyone, but the killer was never caught.

On a whim, Alex applies to take over the column, never thinking she’ll actually land the job. But once she does, strange letters start showing up at the office, making her wonder—why hasn’t the murderer been found? And could her new boss, the powerful editor-in-chief Howard Dimitri, have something to do with it?

As Alex digs deeper, she realizes she’s not just uncovering Keen’s secrets—she’s stirring up ghosts from her own past. And the closer she gets to the truth, the more dangerous things become. Can she solve the mystery before she ends up just like Francis Keen?

I loved the premise of this book. It felt almost comfortable and literary at first, before unsettling things came into play. One slight pet peeve was that I felt like Lucy was too obvious - not who she was necessarily, but how she fit in. I think that reveal came a bit too early and was too heavy-handed. 

Overall the book was a page-turner and I wasn’t sure who did what until the end.

Friday, March 7, 2025

How to Love a Black Hole by Rebecca Fishow

How to Love a Black Hole by Rebecca Fishow


I reviewed Rebecca Fishow's latest collection for MicroLit Almanac - read it here!

How to Love a Black Hole is a haunting, profoundly emotional collection that explores the fragility of human relationships, the weight of trauma, and the search for meaning in a world often defined by contradictions. Each story in the collection leaves a lasting impression, lingering in the mind long after you turn the final page. Fishow’s writing is surreal yet grounded, rich in symbolism and vivid description that blurs the lines between reality and the supernatural.

Friday, February 14, 2025

For the Love of Writing

This blog is mostly book reviews but there's an overlap between reading and writing so I wanted to share my Substack, For the Love of Writing, launching today!

The monthly newsletter will include my thoughts on things related to reading and writing, and I'll also recommend a book (well, at least one!) per issue, so check it out and subscribe so you don't miss a thing!

Friday, January 31, 2025

A New Day by Sue Mell

 

A New Day by Sue Mell

This has been one of my favorite books read recently, so please check it out!
In A New Day, Sue Mell delivers a collection of short stories that feel honest and familiar. The book follows three women—Rachel, Emma, and Nina—through the highs and lows of relationships, creative pursuits, and life’s everyday disarray.

What stands out most about these stories is how real they feel. Mell doesn’t sugarcoat or neatly resolve everything. Instead, she gives us glimpses of decisions that ripple through later stories, sometimes offering closure but more often reflecting how life works—messy, unpredictable, and full of loose ends. It’s like catching up with old friends through mutual acquaintances, where you slowly piece together what’s been happening in their lives.



Monday, January 6, 2025

Feminist Lit by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

I thought it would be nice to start the new year reading some books that light a fire within me during a time when I'd much rather hunker down and continue staying up late doomscrolling and eating holiday treats.


These books spelled out things that have been on my mind more than ever, and in a way that was so easy to understand - and to feel understood. I especially loved the author's take on Ms. over Mrs. - I will die on that hill. Good for you if you don't mind being called Mrs. once you're married, but I don't see why the Miss/Ms./Mrs. distinction even exists, considering there is only Mr. for men. There's no need to classify people by their marriage status when you refer to them. That's why I call everyone Ms., though I will write Mrs. if I know that's what they prefer.

I also loved the discussion on clothes and toys for babies. There's no reason to have clothes for baby boys and baby girls when they wear things for a month (if you're lucky) before growing out of them anyway. I remember taking my son to a store when he was just a few months old and he was wearing a gray onesie with white stars on it. A woman in front of me in the checkout line started talking about my cute little girl and seemed offended when I said he was a boy - are gray and stars feminine? And if they are, what does it matter?

Something I'd never really thought of was the author's idea that, "if we truly depended on biology as the root of social norms, then children would be identified as their mother's rather than their father's because when a child is born, the parent we are biologically certain of is the mother." With all the arguments about two heterosexual parent households and placing blame on single mothers for being *checks notes* single mothers, I loved this concept because it made me, as a single mother raising a son with a completely absent father, feel powerful (as I should, but as society tries to make me not feel).

We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. I previously read this in June 2016 and noted that it didn’t seem as revolutionary as I’d expected when there was such a buzz around it. However, re-reading it, I appreciate how matter-of-fact it is. It’s accessible so everyone can (and should) read it and understand it. As the author herself says, “My own definition if a feminist is a man or a woman who says, yes, there’s a problem with gender as it is today and we must fix it, we must do better. All of us, women and men, must do better.” That’s something we need to strive for now more than ever.

Dear Ijeawele; or, A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. This one resonated with me a bit more than We Should All Be Feminists, perhaps because of the parenting aspect and how conscious I am now of what my son is exposed to and what he thinks is acceptable. Honestly, a lot of the advice struck me in a way that I really needed after being raised in the South and held to certain standards I was led to believe were “right.”

Some of my favorite quotes include:
"Everybody will have an opinion about what you should do, but what matters is what you want for yourself, and not what others want you to want."

"But here is a sad truth: Our world is full of men and women who do not like powerful women. [...] We judge powerful women more harshly than we judge powerful men." Oof, that one hits hard considering *gesturing around*. (The whole quote is amazing but it's a paragraph so I don't want to replicate it all here.)

"Teach her that if you criticize X in women but do not criticize X in men, then you do not have a problem with X, you have a problem with women."

"Teach her to reject likeability. Her job is not to make herself likeable, her job is to be her full self, a self that is honest and aware of the equal humanity of other people."

"Tell her that kindness matters. Praise her when she is kind to other people. But teach her that her kindness must never be taken for granted. Tell her that she, too, deserves the kindness of others."